Love It....Live It !!!

We never really care about those who love us with all their heart. All we can think about is the one we love. Living every single moment in the hope that he or she loves us too. And when we find out that the person we are madly in love with doesn't love us back, he or she actually never even bothers about us....we complain that no one loves us.And yet, there will be this other person waiting, pleading for just one chance to prove their love for us. Ready to do anything just to make us feel special. But why should we care? Someone broke our heart so we do the same to others. Say, for a revenge? Is it?

Why not, just for a change...we try to see what the other person has got for us? And maybe....maybe we realize that it was worth it. Who knows?

Just for once, stop running behind the one who never really cared about your love and turn around, look behind....and you will realize that you were never alone, never unloved.

Well...it's all up to you. All I would say is, you've got this one life....LIVE it!

My Christmas Song

Artworks Update

Few artworks which I would like to share with you;

Portrait of Avril Lavigne. It came out well...better than expected.

My first perspective drawing (Without using scale!)

This is the photoshop project I'm working on recently.

Oject study.

Denmark Sadism

Thanks to my friend, Sandeep (Hyderabad,India), who forwarded this mail to me...I would like to stand against this cruelty and ask for your support.

It's a real shame. Denmark, The sea is stained in red and in the mean while it’s not because of the climate effects of nature.

It's because of the cruelty that the human beings (civilised human) kill hundreds of the famous and intelligent Calderon dolphins.

 

This happens every year in Feroe iland in Denmark . In this slaughter the main participants are young teens.
WHY?
To show that they are adults and mature.... Bullshit!!!

In this big celebration, nothing is missing for the fun. Everyone is participating in one way or the other, killing or looking at the cruelty “supporting like a spectator”

Is it necessary to mention that the dolphin calderon, like all the other species of dolphins, it’s near extinction and they get near men to play and interact. In a way of PURE friendship .

They don’t die instantly; they are cut 1, 2 or 3 times with thick hocks. And at that time the dolphins produce a grim extremely compatible with the cry of a new born child. 

But he suffers and there’s no compassion till this sweet being slowly dies in its own blood.

Its enough! We won’t only read, that would make us accomplices, viewers. Let's stand against this inhumanity.

SIGN AGAINST THIS CRUELTY:

May the spirit of Christmas bring you peace,
The gladness give you hope,
The warmth grant you love.

Gender Issue

Based on the Indian movie "Dor", I was supposed to write an article on Gender bias as an assignment. Well I felt like, why should I write about it so limited? I mean, when I just started writing about it, I realized that it's a major issue not only in India but all over the world.

As mentioned in "Looking for a better world" by Stuart J. Malkin, "Gender bias is as hurtful and destructive as any other bias."

Pondering about this topic I couldn't resist but recollect a research by Amanda Chapman of D' Youville College on "Gender Bias in Education". I remember when I was in school. "Sitting in the same classroom, reading the same textbook, listening to the same teacher, boys and girls receive very different educations". (Sadker, 1994)

In fact, upon entering school, girls perform equal to or better than boys on nearly every measure of achievement, but by the time they graduate high school or college, they have fallen behind.

Across the country, majority is the boys falling into trouble. They earn 70% of the D's and F's that teachers dole out. Ending up into juvenile court for some or other reason.

I mean seriously, how often do we hear about a girl being convicted for drug violation, or some murder or as small as stealing?!

In British Columbia, standardized testing indicates that girls outperform boys at all levels of reading and writing and in Alberta testing shows that girls, "significantly outperform boys on  reading and writing tests, while almost matching them in math and science."

The socialization of gender within our schools assures that girls are made aware that they are unequal to boys. Every time students are seated or lined up by gender, teachers are affirming that girls and boys should be treated differently. When an administrator ignores an act of sexual harassment, he or she is allowing the degradation of girls. When different behaviors are tolerated for boys than for girls because 'boys will be boys', schools are perpetuating the oppression of females.

When I was in high school, there was this teacher who I don't have any idea why hated to see a girl and a  boy talking with each other except about studies. I mean, what the hell is wrong with that? And she won't say anything to the boy but scolds the girl included!

Teachers socialize girls towards a feminine ideal. Girls are praised for being neat, quiet, and calm. whereas boys are encouraged to think independently, be active and speak up.

In our daily life, boys are taunted for throwing like a girl, or crying like a girl, which implies that being a girl is worse than being a boy. Assertive behavior from girls is often seen as disruptive by adults.
(Bailey, 1992) "The clear message to both boys and girls is that girls are not worthy of respect and that appropriate behaviour for boys includes exerting power over girls - or over other, weaker boys." Fuck that!

In our Indian society, people look at a widow with an eye of disrespect. Why can't they treat her as a normal woman...For goodness sake her husband his dead what's her fault in that?!!

From childhood it's been made clear to a girl what are the things she should do and most importantly what she shouldn't! For boys, it's a complete freedom...like "go explore the world, it's all yours."

Right from the time when a girl is born her mother decides her future....a pure feminine one. 'How many mothers dream her daughter to be a soccer player or a boxing champion' ? But why can't they is the one question I wanna ask them. The most important thing to succeed in life is attitude. What can a girl do if her attitude has been molded in such a way that she couldn't even imagine of doing all those things which boys do? From the time she starts to learn, she have been taught that she will always hold a lower position that a boy and that a girl is dependent on a boy or her family.

I understand, that girls and boys hold a specific place in this world. "Girls become a mother, boys are the ones who make them a mother!"

But that doesn't mean we should treat girls with inequality.

A man and a woman are like, the wheels of a cart, balancing it as it moves on. None should be weaker or stronger than the other or else the cart may collapse.

And here's another major deal with genders. "Homosexuals, Bisexuals, Transgenders..." They are no different than us. I feel a surge of anger rising inside me when people talk shits about them. Why treating them as different eh? They are humans, people love their fucking pets more than them!

In India we see some transgenders roaming around on city roads or trains asking for money, talking rudely and misbehaving. That's why you hate them right? Have you ever gave a thought why they do all this? We make them do this. Our fucking limited mentality makes them do this. We treat them as outcasts, weird, freaks...people don't accept them in public...what option they are left with?

I tell you what, I have some homosexual friends. And there's this girl I love who is a bisexual. And you know what, they are better than most of the so called "normal" people that I know. I love them because of their nature. For me, they are as normal as any other human. People who think I'm a freak for this, can go fuck themselves!

Lost Humanity

It's 5:32 am over here at my place. And thinking about the incident or better say accident i witnessed, i just can't sleep.

My friends and I, we were out for a long drive at around 1 am in the morning. We felt hungry so went to a restaurant which was closed but they give parcel for home (which is illegal). While returning we saw a crowd gathered near a tree. We stopped to see what's the matter. And there it was a guy lying there covered in blood and his scooter near him. I asked the people standing there and they told he collided with the tree. That man was lying there unconscious and all those people were doing was staring at him discussing something among themselves trying their mobiles on some help line. No one even cared to take him to the nearby hospital which was not more than 2 kms away....and guess what, 5 of them had their cars with them!

For goodness sake what the fuck were they thinking?!
Some think they will be in trouble if they go to help, some just don't wanna waste their time or some maybe worried about the seat covers of their cars....bloody dumb-asses!!!


My friend arranged for a cab and we took him to the hospital.
We checked for his ID card in his wallet and some home contact on his phone....and we called them. There was his daughter's photograph in his wallet.

We went to the spot of accident, and collected his stuffs. There was a packet of sweets lying there. He might have got promoted. And he was drunk (must be in celebration).

We waited in the hospital. After like 25 minutes we went in and we got to know that the guy is no more. He fucking died in front of us!
I remembered his daughter's face...Suddenly his wife called on his mobile, I picked up but gave to another guy for the convenience of speaking because I don't know the local language. I told my friends that I don't wanna see his family. What will I say to them?
I had a reality check, I might be tough from outside, but I was too weak at heart for such situations. I just can't see someone crying.

One of my friend was saying, "Let's go yaar, we'll be in trouble."
I was going freaking mad at him but somehow I controlled. At least he came with us.

The doctor called me in. He wanted to record basic info about us cuz we brought him there. I gave my name to him. He was telling me "We are declaring him brought dead."
The man was breathing when we brought him..And Why the hell is he telling me that? And he asked me to sign on it! I said ok. And I signed.

Only if those people would have brought him a bit earlier, only if we would have went out a bit earlier...he might have been living now.

I don't know what to say. It seems like, we are just called as humans.
Yes, we are a part of mankind...We are man but are we kind?



Added: Based on the comments I received.
Please avoid drinking and driving if you don't wanna end up like this guy because in this fucked up world, no body cares !!!


Sorry for the satire. But seriously, Think about your family....someone who loves you might be waiting for you. Please.
I'm not telling you not to drink...But just be careful. Don't drive if you are drunk. Better use a cab or call someone to pick you up.